I'm 28. I'm bisexual. I have a son that comes before anything or anyone. fun, outgoing, adventurous, caring. Always looking for a party and some fun. Love the outdoors, hiking, singing and dancing, arts and crafts, writing, drawing. anything else you want to know just ask. hmu
*currently not seeking anyone new outside of friendship, or general social connection …unless you were among those with whom I have been talking to prior to this update to my profile, should something change this will be updated /removed*
I have tried to break my profile up into relevant sections, men women, non-binary other and couples. I would heavily respect if you could read the individual sections for men, women or other identifying wherever you personally land if you are a couple before reading the couple sections so that way you have an understanding of where I would have expectations individually, as well as as a couple
MEN:
when it comes to male partners I tend to be primarily submissive and prefer they take charge
this means I tend to expect you to take the lead in many aspects such as conversation, making of plans and if we connect many aspects of physical intimacy.
this doesn’t mean I won’t be doing my part but I will not be the one taking charge in most situations,
nor does it mean you can attempt to tell me what to do unless we have a connection and have negotiated boundaries in advance.
physically:
I like both masculine and effeminate men long hair and clean Shaven face is a turn on but so is a rugged bearded man…when it comes to looks for a man I am significantly less picky but personally is more important
WOMEN:
tend to be the opposite for females..
I have a preference for women who are in touch with their feminine side and am NOT typically attracted to masculine women. (some are the exception)
I prefer any woman of mine to be more feminine than me because I want to give her the princess attention she deserves.
while personality is still a factor the physical appearance has its place.
I very much respect if they know and are clear with their boundaries and limitations and can be vocal enough to tell me what they like and dislike, I’m not interested in guessing games
Physically:
as stated previously I like women who look like women. I have a weakness for goth women, and for the girl who likes sundresses and spa days.
Non-binary/trans/other
I do like non binary individuals though this is somewhat new to me and so I have a little to no experience or preferences one way or the other.
I also have no preference one way or the other with respect to trans people please see your respective categories above for how you present /preference
so if you fall into this category OR are a more masculine female it’s not off the table but the personality becomes way more important
Couples:
I like couples,
but I am not a unicorn to be used when needed and then put away.
either you want me as a relationship or not.
I will not accept hierarchical relationships.
I do not require play with both partners as I cannot guarantee that I will like both partners in a sexual manner.
I do expect that all parties involved will be at least in the friendly category if I am involved with only one person in the couple.
I am perfectly content being with either the male or the female individually with both equitably.
About me specifically:
I prefer ethical non monogamy and polyamorous relationships.
as I like both men and women and I am not monogamous nor can I consent to a monogamous relationship as I have desires for both men and women.
I can accept a closed poly relationship but will not accept a monogamous relationship.
I would like what is sometimes referred to as kitchen table polyamory. or at least garden party polyamory. I am not ok with parallel.
I am not easily jealous or territorial but I do put a significant emphasis on honesty, trust and communication.
I need all parties involved to be able communicate effectively with each person they are involved with. this means myself and anyone else even if I am not involved intimately with their other partners. as what affects my partners can affect me.
i try my best to communicate effectively and hold myself to the standard I hold my partner’s to.
Me physically
I am a plus size woman who is not going to be everyone’s cup of tea and that’s ok but as long as you are honest and clear about your intentions we will not have any issues.
I have a love of dresses and dislike wearing pants.
while I can and often put on makeup, gothic or casual it’s not an everyday thing.
while i do have private photos and some of which are on the more risky side just because you send a hello does not mean I will automatically grant you access to them.
I have boundaries they are listed below in the limits section . Please feel free to read over them PRIOR to messaging me.
lastly I am not interested in long distance situations, and or online ….and by that if it’s more than a 1.5 hours drive away I am going to simply pass
To start off guys will be vetted first by my partner due to too many boundaries being crossed.
Now that that's said hello I'm a funny, bisexual, kinky, and resourceful woman. My personality is equal parts whimsical, gothic, nerdy, and kind. I won't be walked all over either. I enjoy horror, Halloween, smutty books, and art. I'm in an enm/swinger relationship with my wonderful partner and he is my dom. We would love to make new lifestyle friends, especially couples and like minded people. We have a few things we would love to explore but we wish to make friends and connections first. We are branching out into solo play however you must be vetted by my partner and I both. Please respect my decision on this and trying to cut corners won't help you. Use of protection is a must and I won't change my mind. I am here to indulge my kinks and not just yours. So please don't try to persuade me if I say I'm not interested. I'm fairly new to this lifestyle but my partner has been crucial to my exploration and has been very encouraging through this whole process. I'm looking forward to meeting new respectful friends
actually get to know me be on a handful of messages before trying to request access to my private gallery
apparently this needs to be put in here but I don't have cyber fun on my profile because I want to be able to ask for me in person without one of us happening in trouble and unreasonable amount of time and distance so if you are more than a 3-hour drive from me I don't see it being a feasible outcome
I’m ethically non-monogamous and looking for genuine connection, not just labels or checklists.
While I’m not looking for one-night stands, I am open to friends with benefits and ongoing play partners. I’m recently out of a long-term relationship and not actively looking for another LTR at this time.
I’m easygoing and connect best with people who can balance humor and depth. I enjoy good conversation, dark and twisted humor, and knowing when to switch from playful to serious when the moment calls for it.
I lean naturally submissive with a bratty edge and a sadomasochistic streak, enjoying both giving and receiving intensity within a dynamic built on mutual understanding, respect, and trust. Trust and connection come first for me. I'm interested in getting to know someone and building a solid foundation before exploring a dynamic or engaging in play.
I’m interested in exploring rope and primal/prey dynamics with the right person. These are interests I want to grow into.
I’m looking for a grounded, confident dominant who can take control while still valuing communication, self-awareness, chemistry, and connection. Someone who understands that trust is built over time and that the strongest dynamics start with mutual respect.
I am a bi unicorn looking for LS friends to do things with in and out of the bedroom. I am also wanting a LTR with a male partner, or MF poly couple. After being in a vanilla marriage for 15 years and now in the lifestyle for 4 years, I know what I like so please be understanding if I don't respond to or decline your request.
I am still exploring and discovering what my kinks are. So far I have enjoyed light sensual flogging, watching and being watched, and I have auralism just to name a few.
I have found the love of my life. I am happier than I have ever been. I am always laughing with him.
We are looking for a third or couple that would like to play with BOTH of us. I will not play without him present. I have never played with a girl before, but am curious.
I have lots of medical stuff. My partner is able to handle it. But fair warning, I could have a seizure or pass out in the middle of sex. If that happens, all play ends with me.
looking for a dom whether that be one for a partner, fwb, mainly looking for a relationship with a dom though. I like toys, getting ***d, getting tied up, tpe,and spanked.
haven't explored much so im open to trying almost anything. I dont like taking control and like to leave everything up to the other person i like to listen to the other person while in the bedroom.
I dont like taking nude pictures or videos so please dont ask.
I not really looking for an online relationship I feel like in person is better. but I am willing to move if a relationship started.
Im not really good at these description things. I run on caffeine and pure spite. I love coffee, Pepsi, and other caffenated drinks. water is in each of those. 🤣 im looking to talk and see where things go from there.
I'm 28. I'm bisexual. I have a son that comes before anything or anyone. fun, outgoing, adventurous, caring. Always looking for a party and some fun. Love the outdoors, hiking, singing and dancing, arts and crafts, writing, drawing. anything else you want to know just ask. hmu
*currently not seeking anyone new outside of friendship, or general social connection …unless you were among those with whom I have been talking to prior to this update to my profile, should something change this will be updated /removed*
I have tried to break my profile up into relevant sections, men women, non-binary other and couples. I would heavily respect if you could read the individual sections for men, women or other identifying wherever you personally land if you are a couple before reading the couple sections so that way you have an understanding of where I would have expectations individually, as well as as a couple
MEN:
when it comes to male partners I tend to be primarily submissive and prefer they take charge
this means I tend to expect you to take the lead in many aspects such as conversation, making of plans and if we connect many aspects of physical intimacy.
this doesn’t mean I won’t be doing my part but I will not be the one taking charge in most situations,
nor does it mean you can attempt to tell me what to do unless we have a connection and have negotiated boundaries in advance.
physically:
I like both masculine and effeminate men long hair and clean Shaven face is a turn on but so is a rugged bearded man…when it comes to looks for a man I am significantly less picky but personally is more important
WOMEN:
tend to be the opposite for females..
I have a preference for women who are in touch with their feminine side and am NOT typically attracted to masculine women. (some are the exception)
I prefer any woman of mine to be more feminine than me because I want to give her the princess attention she deserves.
while personality is still a factor the physical appearance has its place.
I very much respect if they know and are clear with their boundaries and limitations and can be vocal enough to tell me what they like and dislike, I’m not interested in guessing games
Physically:
as stated previously I like women who look like women. I have a weakness for goth women, and for the girl who likes sundresses and spa days.
Non-binary/trans/other
I do like non binary individuals though this is somewhat new to me and so I have a little to no experience or preferences one way or the other.
I also have no preference one way or the other with respect to trans people please see your respective categories above for how you present /preference
so if you fall into this category OR are a more masculine female it’s not off the table but the personality becomes way more important
Couples:
I like couples,
but I am not a unicorn to be used when needed and then put away.
either you want me as a relationship or not.
I will not accept hierarchical relationships.
I do not require play with both partners as I cannot guarantee that I will like both partners in a sexual manner.
I do expect that all parties involved will be at least in the friendly category if I am involved with only one person in the couple.
I am perfectly content being with either the male or the female individually with both equitably.
About me specifically:
I prefer ethical non monogamy and polyamorous relationships.
as I like both men and women and I am not monogamous nor can I consent to a monogamous relationship as I have desires for both men and women.
I can accept a closed poly relationship but will not accept a monogamous relationship.
I would like what is sometimes referred to as kitchen table polyamory. or at least garden party polyamory. I am not ok with parallel.
I am not easily jealous or territorial but I do put a significant emphasis on honesty, trust and communication.
I need all parties involved to be able communicate effectively with each person they are involved with. this means myself and anyone else even if I am not involved intimately with their other partners. as what affects my partners can affect me.
i try my best to communicate effectively and hold myself to the standard I hold my partner’s to.
Me physically
I am a plus size woman who is not going to be everyone’s cup of tea and that’s ok but as long as you are honest and clear about your intentions we will not have any issues.
I have a love of dresses and dislike wearing pants.
while I can and often put on makeup, gothic or casual it’s not an everyday thing.
while i do have private photos and some of which are on the more risky side just because you send a hello does not mean I will automatically grant you access to them.
I have boundaries they are listed below in the limits section . Please feel free to read over them PRIOR to messaging me.
lastly I am not interested in long distance situations, and or online ….and by that if it’s more than a 1.5 hours drive away I am going to simply pass
actually get to know me be on a handful of messages before trying to request access to my private gallery
apparently this needs to be put in here but I don't have cyber fun on my profile because I want to be able to ask for me in person without one of us happening in trouble and unreasonable amount of time and distance so if you are more than a 3-hour drive from me I don't see it being a feasible outcome
I’m ethically non-monogamous and looking for genuine connection, not just labels or checklists.
While I’m not looking for one-night stands, I am open to friends with benefits and ongoing play partners. I’m recently out of a long-term relationship and not actively looking for another LTR at this time.
I’m easygoing and connect best with people who can balance humor and depth. I enjoy good conversation, dark and twisted humor, and knowing when to switch from playful to serious when the moment calls for it.
I lean naturally submissive with a bratty edge and a sadomasochistic streak, enjoying both giving and receiving intensity within a dynamic built on mutual understanding, respect, and trust. Trust and connection come first for me. I'm interested in getting to know someone and building a solid foundation before exploring a dynamic or engaging in play.
I’m interested in exploring rope and primal/prey dynamics with the right person. These are interests I want to grow into.
I’m looking for a grounded, confident dominant who can take control while still valuing communication, self-awareness, chemistry, and connection. Someone who understands that trust is built over time and that the strongest dynamics start with mutual respect.
To start off guys will be vetted first by my partner due to too many boundaries being crossed.
Now that that's said hello I'm a funny, bisexual, kinky, and resourceful woman. My personality is equal parts whimsical, gothic, nerdy, and kind. I won't be walked all over either. I enjoy horror, Halloween, smutty books, and art. I'm in an enm/swinger relationship with my wonderful partner and he is my dom. We would love to make new lifestyle friends, especially couples and like minded people. We have a few things we would love to explore but we wish to make friends and connections first. We are branching out into solo play however you must be vetted by my partner and I both. Please respect my decision on this and trying to cut corners won't help you. Use of protection is a must and I won't change my mind. I am here to indulge my kinks and not just yours. So please don't try to persuade me if I say I'm not interested. I'm fairly new to this lifestyle but my partner has been crucial to my exploration and has been very encouraging through this whole process. I'm looking forward to meeting new respectful friends
I am a bi unicorn looking for LS friends to do things with in and out of the bedroom. I am also wanting a LTR with a male partner, or MF poly couple. After being in a vanilla marriage for 15 years and now in the lifestyle for 4 years, I know what I like so please be understanding if I don't respond to or decline your request.
I am still exploring and discovering what my kinks are. So far I have enjoyed light sensual flogging, watching and being watched, and I have auralism just to name a few.
Im not really good at these description things. I run on caffeine and pure spite. I love coffee, Pepsi, and other caffenated drinks. water is in each of those. 🤣 im looking to talk and see where things go from there.
I have found the love of my life. I am happier than I have ever been. I am always laughing with him.
We are looking for a third or couple that would like to play with BOTH of us. I will not play without him present. I have never played with a girl before, but am curious.
I have lots of medical stuff. My partner is able to handle it. But fair warning, I could have a seizure or pass out in the middle of sex. If that happens, all play ends with me.
looking for a dom whether that be one for a partner, fwb, mainly looking for a relationship with a dom though. I like toys, getting ***d, getting tied up, tpe,and spanked.
haven't explored much so im open to trying almost anything. I dont like taking control and like to leave everything up to the other person i like to listen to the other person while in the bedroom.
I dont like taking nude pictures or videos so please dont ask.
I not really looking for an online relationship I feel like in person is better. but I am willing to move if a relationship started.
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